Painful Silence

Let’s Finish the Job Senator Nancy Schaefer Started!

Written By: Amie Shalom - Feb• 24•14

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Because of the late SENATOR NANCY SCHAEFER we are united to speak out what has been done to our children, the AMERICAN CHILDREN and us the parents and grandparents and all families that has been destroyed by the incumbency of the system. Nancy’s heart and her intentions was nothing more than to expose CPS children thefts and RESTORE AMERICAN FAMILIES. STATE MURDER.



Here is a copy of the actual report she wrote as a downloadable PDF

Link:  TheCorruptBusinessOfChildProtectiveServices


Painful Silence @ Court Watch

Written By: Amie Shalom - Dec• 01•15


PAINFUL SILENCE (Amie Shalom,far left)  attended in support as I too have been unjustly jailed for child support.



Moving Forward

Written By: Amie Shalom - Nov• 17•15

Dear Judge Clark:
I understand that my case remains on a STAY per your Honor’s latest text ruling dated on XXXX based on Rooker-Feldman and Younger doctrine which I hope that I have successfully overcome. I am not in lower court fighting this case for over turn charges but I am presently fighting on Supreme court. I am before this bench asking for Federal Court to review the tremendous and overwhelming Civil Rights violations committed upon me and my minor son,
K. A.Y. by all defendants in this case.

Furthermore, I would like to kindly inform this court and all defendants that I have an open case and have asked for an investigation of our Human Rights’ violations under charters and treaties set forth by the United Nations. I have been assigned a case number, and expect, demand, pray that one way or the other, this case will be heard and that it will continue to be escalated to the highest levels of authorities. I am not planning on giving up in true justice, free my son and I from all the abuse done to me as a woman, protective mother in the United States of America.


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First Amendment challenge to broad gag order on New Jersey Family Court litigants

Written By: Amie Shalom - Oct• 31•15

A New Jersey federal court allows the lawsuit — brought by Paul Nichols, a Bergen Dispatch reporter who wants to interview one of the litigants — to go forward, and seems sympathetic to Nichols’s First Amendment argument, though the case is still at a preliminary stage and no declaratory judgment has been issued. Here are some excerpts from that opinion, Nichols v. Sivilli(D.N.J. Dec. 19, 2014):

Plaintiff Paul Nichols is a reporter for the Bergen County Dispatch who brings a First Amendment challenge to a gag order … issued by Judge Nancy Sivilli in Myronova v. Malhan, a divorce and custody suit pending in the family division of the Essex County Superior Court. Nichols wishes to interview one of the parties inMyronova v. Malhan, but is unable to because the Gag Order restrains all parties to the litigation from discussing any aspect of the divorce proceedings.

In order to understand Nichols’ First Amendment challenge, the Court first must provide a brief overview of the divorce proceedings that are the subject of the Gag Order. In 2011, a New Jersey court granted full child custody to Alina Myronova and stripped all custody rights from her husband, Surrender Malhan, after Myronova alleged that Malhan was an unfit parent.

According to the [Complaint], the state court stripped Malhan of his custody rights on a mere two hours’ notice without affording him an opportunity to refute Myronova’s allegations. For example, the court prohibited Malhan from cross examining Myronova or presenting physical evidence — such as bank records or video recordings — that would further demonstrate his parental fitness. The [Complaint] alleges that after the 2011 proceeding, Myronova retained sole custody of the children for sixteen months until she agreed to joint custody in June 2012; during that time, “Malhan was never granted a plenary hearing.”

Malhan, along with five other parents, subsequently filed a class action lawsuit in this District that is currently pending before the Honorable Freda Wolfson: Edelglass, et al., v. New Jersey, et al.. The class action suit alleges that the New Jersey family court system fails to provide adequate due process rights to parents in child custody proceedings. In February 2014, a New Jersey affiliate of a major news broadcasting company interviewed Malhan and two other Edelglass plaintiffs regarding their experiences in family court and their allegations that the family court deprived them of their constitutional rights. In response, Myronova initiated proceedings against Malhan, which resulted in Judge Sivilli entering the Gag Order. The Gag Order reads, in pertinent part:

All parties are hereby enjoined and restrained without prejudice from speaking with, appearing for an interview, or otherwise discussing, the parties’ marriage, their pending divorce, the within litigation, or the parties children or making any derogatory or negative statements about the other parties to any reporters, journalists, newscasters, or other agents/employees of newspapers or other media outlets on the grounds that it is not in the best interest of the children to have the parties’ divorce litigation discussed in a public forum or to have public disparaging statements made about any party by the other party.

In addition to restricting their ability to discuss their divorce or related litigation with other individuals, the Gag Order also prohibits the parties from conveying such information on social media. The Gag Order also instructs Malhan to remove all divorce-related information from his blog.

In May 2014, Malhan filed for a temporary restraining order inEdelglass seeking to enjoin enforcement of the Gag Order. In a May 8, 2014 Order, Judge Wolfson expressed her view that the Gag Order “raises serious constitutional concerns” and that Judge Sivilli “failed to meaningfully weigh Plaintiff’s First Amendment rights.” She nonetheless denied Malhan’s motion because the relief he sought was barred by the RookerFeldman doctrine [which limits federal intervention in state proceedings -EV]. Malhan suffered another defeat when the Appellate Division of the Superior Court of New Jersey denied his application for an interlocutory appeal of the Gag Order.

After Malhan failed to enjoin enforcement of the Gag Order, Nichols filed the instant action in this Court.2 Nichols wishes to interview Malhan about his experiences in family court, which according to Nichols, “are a matter of public interest.” Nichols contends that that he is unable to interview Malhan because the Gag Order restricts Malhan from saying anything that relates to his divorce proceedings.

The [Complaint] alleges that Judge Sivilli entered the Gag Order without conducting any meaningful weighing of the First Amendment interests at stake. According to Nichols, Judge Sivilli did not hold a plenary hearing and made no specific findings as to why a gag order was required in this particular case; instead, she issued the Gag Order “based on a generalized finding that publicity in family court is not in the best interests of children.” … Nichols seeks … a declaratory judgment that the Gag Order is unconstitutional ….

The [defendants’] motion to dismiss contends that the Gag Order is not a prior restraint and therefore must only be “reasonable,” a standard that, according to Defendants, is easily met here. In contrast, Nichols argues that the Gag Order is a prior restraint subject to the most exacting form of judicial scrutiny.

Once a court determines that a restriction on speech is a prior restraint, there will be a heavy presumption against its constitutional validity.. While the precise differences between a prior restraint and an ordinary restriction on speech are notoriously muddied, at the very least, prior restraints can be understood to “encompass[ ] injunctive systems which threaten or bar future speech based on some past infraction.”

The situation in this case, however, is less straightforward because the Gag Order does not impose any restrictions on Nichols; it restricts only the speech of Malhan, whom Nichols wishes to interview. [Footnote: Even though Nichols is not the subject of the Gag Order, his inability to obtain information from Malhan meets Article III’s injury-in fact-requirement.] The Third Circuit is silent on whether a gag order imposed on a trial participant can operate as a prior restraint on the press. Other Circuits that have addressed the issue are in disagreement. Compare In re Dow Jones & Co., Inc. (Dow Jones & Co.), 842 F.2d 603 (2d Cir. 1988) (gag order on trial participant does not operate as a prior restraint on the press), and Radio and Television News Assoc. of Southern California, 781 F.2d 1443 (9th Cir. 1986) (same), with Journal Publishing Co., v. E.L. Mechem, 801 F.2d 1233 (10th Cir. 1986) (gag order on trial participant is a prior restraint on the press presumed to be constitutionality invalid), and CBS Inc. v. Young, 522 F.2d 234 (6th Cir. 1975) (same).

The Court need not choose which side of the split to follow because even assuming that the Gag Order is not a prior restraint on the press, Nichols has sufficiently pled that the Gag Order is not justified. See Davis v. East Baton Rouge Parish School Bd., 78 F.3d 920 (5th Cir. 1996) (“We need not decide whether the confidentiality order constitutes a prior restraint on the news agencies because, even assuming that the order is not a prior restraint, its effect on the news agencies’ First Amendment rights must still be justified.” (citing Dow Jones & Co., 842 F.2d at 609)). The Dow Jones & Co. Court, which found that a similar gag order was not a prior restraint on the press, upheld the order only after concluding that it was justified. First, the court noted that the judge who issued the gag order examined specific circumstances unique to the case. For example, the judge found that press leaks attributable to the government revealed the identities and testimony of grand jury witnesses, which constituted a “shameful abuse of grand jury secrecy” that jeopardized the Sixth Amendment rights of the criminal defendants. Moreover, the judge issuing the gag order “properly recognized [that] before entering an injunction against speech he had to explore whether other available remedies would effectively mitigate the prejudicial publicity.” Dow Jones & Co., 842 F.2d at 609, 612 (citing Nebraska Press, 427 U.S. at 562).

[Footnote: In support of their argument, Defendants only cite cases in which the First Amendment rights of the press clashed with Sixth Amendment rights of criminal defendants. This case, however, involves a clash between the First Amendment and the “best interests of children.” The distinction is meaningful because while courts have held that First Amendment rights may need to yield to Sixth Amendment rights, See Dow Jones & Co., 842 F.2d at 609, it is less clear that the same should occur when a First Amendment interest is in tension with a child’s best interest. Cf. Troxel v.. Granville, 530 U.S. 57, 73 (2000) (suggesting that the best interest of a child cannot trump fundamental constitutional rights). But see, Smith v. Daily Mail Pub. Co., 443 U.S. 97, 107 (1979) (Rehnquist, J., concurring) (recognizing that juvenile proceedings historically “have been conducted outside of the public’s full gaze … [out of] concern for the welfare of the child….”)]

According to the [Complaint], Judge Sivilli did not engage in this type of analysis before issuing the Gag Order. The Gag Order — which is attached to the [Complaint] — broadly prohibits Malhan from discussing any aspect of his divorce, including his experiences during child custody proceedings. The [Complaint] alleges that despite its far-reaching scope, the Gag Order was issued “in a summary proceeding without any evidentiary hearing or any weighing of competing interests….” The [Complaint] further alleges that Judge Sivilli made no specific findings regarding Mr. Malhan and his children with respect to the need for a gag order, and instead issued the Order “based on a generalized finding that publicity in family court is not in the best interests of children.” … Nichols [thus] adequately allege[d] a First Amendment violation….

I sympathize with the desire to shield children from hearing their parents publicly criticize each other, and more broadly from hearing public discussion of what to them is often a serious tragedy. But I don’t think that this is reason enough to suppress litigants’ speech about what they see as the injustices in the process. If citizens are to evaluate government officials’ performance — here, the performance of judges — as well as the performance of the family court system as a whole, they need to be able to hear specific details about alleged abuses. And litigants are often the only ones who are in a position to convey such details.



December 30, 2014 copyright Washington Post


Written By: Amie Shalom - Jul• 18•15

Children Protection Services AKA CPS, Family Corrupted Court, Therapists/Psychologists/Psychiatrist Industry have simply proven to suffer from severe personality and MORAL disorder, because it is immoral to lie, belittle, coerce, threatens, abuse,   hurt, accuse, ordered-mandate, intimidate, seize, ignored children and protective loving parents just for your own personal financial gain while destroying innocents. Not to mention ripping families apart.   ~Painful Silence

Mother Committed Suicide Abused and Bullied by CPS and Family Court

I was Facebook friend of this precious Mom Lacie, I remember waking up one morning to this terrible news that she took her life away because CPS had removed her children from her unjustly. I felt impotent and as I’ve been Gagged I made the step to find ways to speak up and tell the world about these family court injustices launching Painful Silence. R.I.P.  Lacie  xo 



Father Committed Suicide Abused By Family Court and Bullied By Narcissistic Ex Wife 


* Expose everyone that harmed your child and yourself since that is their worse nightmare. They will lie, discredit, deceive, deny, manipulate those around them making them believe that you are ‘crazy’ and not to be trusted stating you are an ‘exaggerator and delusional’ convincing everyone they can [i.e., including your friends and family if they can] that you need ‘mental help’ as they are narcissist and one of their red flags is when they act outraged at what you are doing to ‘them’ [blame shift] remember you’re not doing anything wrong but exposing who they truly are to the world to prevent others from being harmed by those pathological liars – psychos that must be under serious mental watch and separated from society since they’re sick people contaminating this world. This group of people are found in family court law.

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To Alexander

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Psychopaths do not feel guilty because they have no remorse and they enjoy all the damages they intentionally cause. They need drama, play the ‘victims’ by gaining attention to look innocents in the public eye, while they’re manipulating, torturing and destroying lives.

Sociopaths/psycho are experts liars, exaggerators equipped with convincing evil charming skills. It takes a lot of people to unmask these type of individuals.

Warning: they can be found in the family court divorce extortion process, including but not limited your X, CPS agents, lawyers, honorable judges, GALS and ‘Clinicians.’ ~Painful Silence               #DoNotBeFooled


Written By: Amie Shalom - Mar• 15•14